Making a marriage covenant can be a big leap for most of us. We are basically putting our flawed self under the same roof as someone who is not perfect either. You can guarantee there would be a lot of friction that leads to squabbles.
As it takes effort to tie the knot, it takes as much effort to untie it. Before you think about doing so, really analyse your relationship. Look out for the signs that might diminish the passion you once had with your spouse — and try fanning the flames before calling it quits.
Dato’ Dr Arunan Selvaraj, a practicing lawyer for 25 years now, has took all his experience in the area of Matrimonial and Family Law and wrote a book, Saving Your Marriage. In his years of seeing marriages turn to divorces, then in some cases to reconciliations, he has knowledge of the evident causes that lead to a marriage turning sour. Look out for these signs, and you may have a better chance of mending your relationship.